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what would you do
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:09 amby Benj
ok so i have been well was dating this girl for 3 years and well we called ehr quits, and well its been about 3 weeks and she is already seeing another guy, slightly upset about that, but whatever. Anyways so i ask her who the new guy is and well she says that i know him. so im thinking fack its someone that i have meet but dont know really good, so anyways im like just tell me its not like im gonna get pissed or anything. so she tells me and its this guy thats been my buddy for like 10 years, now my only feeling is to go out and wrap a baseball bat around his head ( which i didnt ) and i wont... but it just pisses me off, now would you guys still talk to her and him or just tell them to
. im stuck cuz i still like her and hes been my buddy for 10 years....
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:24 amby spiritR
happened to me but i was with her for 1 year only me and well everyone else that knows him and me just stopped talking to him its been like almost 2 years already and before anyone says im childish or whatever its just how things go around here if your buddy wants to go out with the girl after you broke up still gotta ask cuz you still might have feelings for her that goes for the ladies too
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:55 amby CaliEJ2
i would kill them both...lol jk. well how good of a friend are/were u with him? but with her you'll eventually get over her...right?
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 12:29 pmby CivicTypeR
Tell them both to
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:22 pmby Eli'sEG94
Fack i'm in a situacion like this, but i'm the friend. I sucks you know they are still together but idk it's tough to explain. I'm just giving insight view from the other side of things. plz don't hate it's a decision that both make, it's not like he forced her to go out with him. so keep that in mind man.
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:32 pmby vtec_gloucester
fuck them both!
fuck her for moving on so soon after the break up and especially go goin with your friend.
fuck him for getting with your ex, if he was a friend he wouldnt go near her... he should be loyal to you and your friendship.
i would have took a bat to him already... wouldnt have even hesitated.
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:38 pmby zeppelin101
vtec_gloucester wrote:i would have took a bat to him already... wouldnt have even hesitated.
And violence does what except get you locked up?
Do what you like to him if you're prepared to accept the consequences.
Personally I wouldn't bother with either of them. No point when your mate obviously lost the concept of loyalty somewhere down the line and the ex could care less.
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:38 pmby marvinp8700
beat that pricks ass then pimpslap his girl
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:39 pmby smokinsoljah420
CivicTypeR wrote:Tell them both to
x2! Ive been through that same shit cept that stupid cunt only waited one day then i cought her making out with one of my BEST freinds in a bathroom at a party i was at. I just let them both go. No need to do something stupid. Its not easy and i give you props for not stomping eithers face in.
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Mon Jan 19, 2009 5:44 pmby CivicTypeR
Just goes to show who your true friends are... Civic's!!!!!11!! SO GO GIVE EM LOVEEEEE.
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Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:19 amby Benj
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Tue Jan 20, 2009 6:06 pmby OmarG
I'd hit that...
With a fuckin' tire iron. Fuck them both. honestly. I'm sorry dude, that shit is tough.
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Tue Jan 20, 2009 6:18 pmby Benj
oh and to top it all off, they have been "hitting it off" since before new years. and the shittyer thing is that him and i had a bit of a fight 3 years ago and we never really put it behind us, and then on the 4th of jan i went and played pool with all the guy and i looked at him and i was like man lets put all the old shit behind us and start new, like its 2009 new year new life new slate. and bam i get FUCKED.
it sucks and i want is for her to come back to me..... any help on gettin over this girl. like i cant get her off my mind, i have not slept in days, i cant eat, the only time i feel better is when i am swamped at work and i worrie that the customers are gonna have a shit fit. help me please....
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Tue Jan 20, 2009 6:19 pmby egsedanguy
ya fuck them both. thats B.S. i had the same thing kinda happen to me. it was a friend and my x. but the funny thing is we are still friends and joke bout it still. i hate the x tho.
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Tue Jan 20, 2009 8:21 pmby Eli'sEG94
Dude I might not be the best person to tell you this, cuz well I've been branded the "other one" but just go out with your friends for real, just forget it put it behind you. Heck i'm willing to forget both of them and move away to avoid any further problems (i'm not the violent type) but listen things don't always work out that's what I've come to learn from experience.
