blown HG?

no coolant in the oil, no oil in the coolant and motor still runs like the day i got it. i ask because a honda mechanic took a peek at it yesterday and mentioned my headgasket COULD be blown. but i still think its my vtec solenoid gasket leaking soo bad its pouring down the front of the tranny, i see the oil all over the solenoid, then all down the front side of the tranny. are there any other ways to check and make sure of that besides actually taking the head off?