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- Sun Aug 02, 2009 8:42 pm #134948 so im guessing most of us on civic eg deal with relationship problems almost daily let it be our own or a friends......

Well heres mine lol

So ive been dateing this awsome girl whos into cars and knows how to drive a 5spd woohoo finally. Well low n behold i was single for awhile 2 yrs or so and now i got another girl who apparently loves me however she has a kid. And i know me not haveing a job is not a good thing with having a kid....but apparently that dosent matter to her. Well I havent told the girl that loves me about the other girl because i like them both alot and care about them the same.....I dont want to hurt anyone in this matter either so yea i just dont know what to do i mean yea lol

So what would you guys do in this situation ????

I wish to keep the one who is really into cars and such because thats awsome and rare in a girl lol but yea im attracted to her more. Just she does have a past but the best thing about her is shes looking towards the future and trying to become a better person.

1980 volvo 242
2001 crv
not using punctuation or good sentence structure since day 1

- Sun Aug 02, 2009 9:50 pm #134953 Call me a bastard / prick whatever but I would avoid the one with the child like the plague. Particularly if I did not have a job.

A kid is a massive responsibility - if you don't have some form of income you'll just fuck it all up and neither of you will be happy.

- Sun Aug 02, 2009 11:07 pm #134971

Call me a bastard / prick whatever but I would avoid the one with the child like the plague. Particularly if I did not have a job.

A kid is a massive responsibility - if you don't have some form of income you'll just fuck it all up and neither of you will be happy.

Your right tho i mean i told her that too i dont want to live paycheck to paycheck even if we are in love it would ruin everything in the end damn money.....but yea n i also know im just not ready for a kid i bearly got my life going yet

1980 volvo 242
2001 crv
not using punctuation or good sentence structure since day 1

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:02 am #135022 wheres the kids real father at . giving this child a father figure is important but isnt your job . im married with two kids and know that i couldnt leave my kids but if something was to happen to me i wouldnt want someone to not date/be interested in my wife because she has kids yeah there a huge responsibilty but if you love a person then you take them for what they are ( a mom or not ) but thats just me . and girls who are interested in cars arent rare just gotta keep your eyes open .

no rest for the wicked"

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:25 am #135023 Love takes years. Call me your choice of name but I would never get into a relationship with a girl who already had kids. Especially if we younger. I've seen too many people be unhappy with their lives later on because they had children at a young age. There are more fish in the sea, and if you don't think so, you should get out more often

Tons of girls like driving, most like it when you teach them stuff. I would keep the one that does my oil changes for me

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 12:00 pm #135038

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 4:55 pm #135143

no need for pics trying to keep everything on teh downlow so to speak lol plus looks arent everything.....

Anyhow the real father of the kid was living with her still but sorta treating her like crap apparently sorta like mentally abusing her idk n i think since im nice and would never do that she got attatched to me and well i guess fell hard.....

I told her which prolly was a mistake about the girl im dating because apparently she didnt know i wasnt single and wow was she pissed started swearing up n down on me and such i just kept my cool and stuff lol because that stuff dosent bother me but yea if she reacted like that to me dating another girl and not chooseing to date her what would happen if i brought a car that she didnt like home lol or something well anyways time to do something else not involveing women because apparently besides the one im dateing right now all i get is greif n stuff idk

1980 volvo 242
2001 crv
not using punctuation or good sentence structure since day 1

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:40 pm #135157 Females are NUTS plain and simple.

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:43 pm #135159 And what does keeping this on the "downlow" have to do with you not posting pics?? You've already posted this on the net, thats not very DL...

But I get it...

looks arent everything.....

We all know what that means.

- Mon Aug 03, 2009 11:05 pm #135206

Females are NUTS plain and simple.

I resent that!

I say if you like the girl your with and that loves cars then what's the problem..you're with that girl correct? then enough said

- Tue Aug 04, 2009 12:13 am #135219

Females are NUTS plain and simple.

who can bleed for 7 days and live!!!. we're all fucked.

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- Tue Aug 04, 2009 4:02 am #135243 I could probably make you bleed for 7 days but you'd lose a lot of blood and probably wouldn't like it jk

- Tue Aug 04, 2009 2:54 pm #135296

Call me a bastard / prick whatever but I would avoid the one with the child like the plague. Particularly if I did not have a job.

A kid is a massive responsibility - if you don't have some form of income you'll just fuck it all up and neither of you will be happy.

this is all you need to know.
some day you might want to have your own kid.
you will want to give him/her 100%.
you will not have that option if you throw your life away.

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