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By 93cxhb
#137741 :x :x ..............so ive come the conclusion that i hate cops as a whole . maybe there might be a few good ones :lol: . but i think most are scum or power hungry assholes ...... My wife is a police dispatcher and for the most part its kinda cool cause i know whats going on around me and she'll usually know ahead of time when there going to be looking for speeders harder than normal .
so now heres the catch tho cops are scum cause they keep hitting on my wife and theyre allways hitting on other dispacthers as well . so now i find myself worrying about things and theres a scum bag of a cop who has from what she says slept with a few dispatchers and now hes talking to her and have become facebook friends .from what she has said they never see eachother in person . as much as i trust my wife to do the right thing i know how much she hates confrontation so i just worry that he'll say something and she wont deal with it before he gets any ideas in his messed up lil head .......what should i do about this or should i just leave it alone ?
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By Chance
#137742 Why does she keep him as a "facebook" friend? It isnt "cops" dude.. It GUYS!!!!! This problem will be then same no matter the job she has!

Cant really do much, Its up to your wife to nip that shit in the butT (not literally :P ) But yeah I HAAAAATE shit like this also. Just have to trust her and remember YOU are the one with her!
Last edited by Chance on Thu Aug 13, 2009 7:04 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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By marvinp8700
#137761 file a formal complaint at the PD.

it is a conflict of interests

trust me. i have been in your shoes
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By 93cxhb
#137784 hmm . would it be confidentail ? the building she works in is just above the pd . but thats not a bad idea, thanks. & i know its gonna happen no matter where she works & i trust her it just seems extra worse at this place and theres a bit of a bad reputaion there . do to a few of the cops and her co-workers so its almost like they think its ok. i guess i just wanted to know what i should do before the time comes that i have to do something ....or maybe im just a scared bitch
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By marvinp8700
#137789 ran into the same problem with my ex. she was a dispatcher and a cop was hitting on her. i spoke with the cop and he basically told me to get used to it cuz he was a cop and i had no real pull on the situation. talked to an attorney and he advised me to file a formal complaint. problem solved. as far as the confidentiality of the report it is going to depend on the size of the area you live in. my town is kinda small, 100k people, and he found out. luckily it was after the fact so he could do nothing.
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By 93cxhb
#137805 thats awsome .. way to stick it to him . thanks for the advice .
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By egsedanguy
#137810 ya it needs to be handeled in a resonable manner.. honestly why is he on your wifes face book if she never sees him. fuck that... get on facebook on your wifes profile, ask him were he lives, get location, burning shit on door step :thumb: . hahaha. whats he going to do? blame on your wife? dought it... but ya i would be upset man... your wife needs to handel it a lil better and not be so passive about it.. shit last dude that hit on my girl got an ear full from her and she thretend him.lol he never came around agin.. same with co-workers. so honestly its kinda out of your hands.. your wife needs to address this.. she has more pull than the cops do. she is a girl.. this kind of case will work in her favor...
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By 93cxhb
#138326 to makie it short and simple .. this is no longer a problem . thanks for the advice guys .
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By Chance
#138327 Glad to hear! :thumb:
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By marvinp8700
#138342 awsome :thumb: